SEX…….Ummmmm…Ahemmmm…Ahemmmm….

While I was staring at the bruised wall patches in my room yesterday night, I wondered how desperate we humans have become to survive in this planet. Desperate enough to kill each other! Reckless ways of puking out frustration has become human nature these days. It is not at all an ‘India Shining’ moment when we come to know that the capital city of this country helps flourish human animals. I know it’s too much of the same thing again….to go through the same old stuff that has kept bothering you recently. I sit here and type these words not to complete just another task assigned to me, but it is for the dire need of self-realisation in our society.

‘The girl should have surrendered to the men at that moment. At least it could have saved her intestines’ – said by an educated women in a press conference. If that was not enough, some bloody saintly figure barked this – ‘She should have made them her brothers. You cannot accuse them being responsible for what has happened to her. She herself is guilty for this.’ Most of you would definitely love to kick both of their…. (ahemmm…ahemmm). However, I don’t blame them. What happened to these people after they said all this nonsense? Oh, I forgot…freedom of expression. So, that means anybody can say anything about any issue; no matter how sensitive the issue is? At a time when the entire nation was mourning the death of the girl, these two (I really want to use the word but you all know I can’t…just utter it for me when you read this) vomited out their irrational and insensitive statements.

A tree grows well when we care for it from its roots or seeds. Our paralysed patriarchal psychology seems have attained an incurable state. Whenever it’s about sex, we either switch channels or move away from the situation. What on earth is so ugly in this? I am absolutely sure that none of you have come out straight from the asteroid falling on earth or have just popped out of nowhere?! Admit it, each one of us is a sexual by-product of copulation. It only becomes ugly when males start taking females as sexually satisfying organisms. For all those who think so, ask your mother about where did you come from? Keep asking them until they call you a pervert, kick you out of your house and then to complete your urge, you catch a girl walking down the road along with her friend in the night, put your toy inside her forcefully, and then satisfy your quest!!

I am just explaining a situation. This is exactly the nature of a greater fraction of men in the Indian society. It’s an earnest request to all the people involved in the education ministry, make sex education imperative in every school. I know it is already, but not in some of the most ‘so called’ developed states in this country. Grassroot level change can only act as the harbinger of a larger change!!!!